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9 Irresistible Flirting Tips – How To Sizzle and Dazzle the Opposite Sex

Sunday, February 26th, 2006

You don’t have to be a movie star look-alike to sizzle and dazzle the opposite sex. All you need is a genuine sweet looking smile plus a few irresistible flirting tips.

1. For women, we preen or groom ourselves subconsciously when we are attracted to someone – by smoothing down our hair or clothes, checking our lipstick, or straightening a tie. Combine your grooming gesture with a smile and a gaze. You can also toss your hair to one side – a combination 1-2 punch of preening and a flash of neck.

2. A genuine, friendly smile is you’re most powerful. Behavior experts agree that a smile makes you more attractive and approachable. Guys, if a woman lock eyes and smiles with you three or more times in an evening, you have been given an unmistakably clear signal that she’s interested. Make your move, if you don’t, somebody else will.

3. Gaze the eyes with the person you’re flirting with for a full five to six seconds, smile and then drop your fix. Do this at least three times in a ten to fifteen-minute period. Your target needs to know you are flirting with him; making eye contact is a universal signal of openness.

4. One of the more successful flirting techniques a woman can employ is to expose her neck. A head tilt, the classic hair flip, or the over-the-shoulder glance attracts men’s attention, exposes your neck, and gives you the opportunity to lock eyes. The over-the-shoulder move is extra-effective because it’s sexy and sends a signal to your target that they are worth a second look.

5. Members of both sexes are subconsciously attracted to red, moist lips because they signal youth, sex and fertility. Red also increases a man’s heart rate. How to capitalize on it? Wearing a red lipstick gives women’s lips not only a youthful color but also a more obvious smile and whiter teeth. Using a super-shiny lip gloss makes your lips look moist and kissable. Men or women should lick their lips subtly (you don’t want to look like you’re trying out for a porno flick) or bite the lower lip – both are extremely effective flirting behaviors.

6. Men should stand tall with the shoulders pulled back and squared; women are biologically attracted to more dominant men. Feel free to take up some space.

7. For women, crossing and uncrossing their legs is a surefire flirting technique, especially if you’re wearing high heels. A woman crossing her legs appears seductive to men and it makes them desire to see more. Slipping the heel out of your shoe and dangling it on your toes is another trick. The arch of a foot sends a sexual message and mimics a woman’s curves, and makes a man’s heart race.

8. Once you and your flirting target start talking, the next step is to intensify the attraction. How? Smile and maintain eye contact, focus all of your attention on what they say. No one is more attractive than someone who gives you an undivided attention. Employ the nod and head tilt techniques. Smiling and laughing are crucial at this point – it the quickly puts the other person at ease. Making low-level contact by brushing the shoulder or elbow is another effective flirting technique.

9. People mirror each other’s body language – gestures, voice volume, posture, etc when they are attracted. Very subtly mirror your flirting target’s behavior – if she leans forward, lean forward; if he scratches his head, scratch your head. When you mirror someone’s behavior, they’ll begin to feel, think and believe as though the two of you are connected.

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A Tribute to Goodness

Monday, February 20th, 2006

… and those friends I have met on the street, who gave to me the gifts of fairness and compassion, adventure and lust.


By Punkerslut

Dedicated a wonderful woman named Stray… As I was sitting and writing in my journal, she came from behind me and started kissing me on the back of my neck. There are few memories I would want to last for so long.


It is a crime, I confess, on the books of our government to take another’s property without consent. It is this that is called stealing. But it was just this that I did. One store or another, I would walk in, and obtain property, without the consent of the owner. I stole food, and I gave it to those who could not afford it. I gave it to men who looked more ragged than any Hollywood movie could envision, and I gave them a little more than just food to fill their stomachs. I gave them the promise that there is forever at least one Humanitarian in every generation, a hope that life one day will not be one of poverty, a desire to be free and live life well. I am a thief, and I have stolen that the poor, hungry masses might not starve. In the eyes of the state, I am a merciless criminal. I vow to forever battle the peoples’ hunger of food as much as I vow to battle for their hunger of liberty. As long as the shimmering star of life continues to burn in the heavens, there will always be a revolutionary there to resist the brutality of the state’s iniquity. And as long as there as we can see more than just green when we see a forest, as long as we can see more than just white when we see a cloud, as long as we can see more than just blue when we see the ocean, as long as our souls are not deaf to beauty’s inspiration and depth, and as long as our minds are not dormant to the possibilities of hope, we will forever be one marching mass, constantly reaching and clawing, diving deeper in creativity and love, learning more and more by reading the books of experience, and as long as we march on past the blistering winds with our companions, we will enjoy a type of freedom that comes with integrity, and we will have a type of hope that renders results. To this degree of existance and meaning, I can only say this: there are few things I would rather be a part of.


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A Whisper to a Friend

Thursday, February 16th, 2006

It seemed improbable that I would come to be their ally. He was arrogant but intelligent, vulgar but precise. In his character, there were to be found the vices that I once exhibiting years ago. As I tried with focus to eliminate these attributes in myself, I tried to develop my complimentary traits. I believed that the greatest social change that can come to a society will come from those who are patient, willing, and intelligent. No advancement of civilization can come when the rabble rousers are blindfolded, when the people become moths, following wherever the light goes. This man and I, we hardly ever mingled, until a great deal of time had passed. He had known of me, and I had known of him. We both had the same interests, the same desire for a society that did not abuse its animals, for a social construct that did not set up the exploitation of laborers. But then the occasion would have for it that we would meet and exchange our thoughts. One of the finest moments of our lives, we confided in each other, was when we realized the brutality, the insane logic and reasoning which had been used to justify the greatest cruelties, the vicious and savaged nature of our society — and both of us, upon learning this for ourselves, immediately had given up such practises of brutality.

It is, odd, indeed, that we may differ as a pair from a great deal of society. Becoming Vegetarians at the first knowledge of this inhumane slaughter of animals, we were both glad that we had found this immutable truth. Another person from society had once commented on this, saying, “If I didn’t know it was wrong to steal from people, I would have more joy in my exploits than a man who knew it was wrong, who may not enjoy it at all. So, how is it that you can be happy at discovering something that prevents you from pleasure?” To this, I remarked, “Besides the fact that I am sharing in the honor, the virtue, and the privilege, of being among the few to start a world wide revolution on behalf of all those who are oppressed — besides the fact that I may be a faceless member in a crowd of individuals constantly, relentlessly working for those who may suffer as we do — besides this one fact, the pleasure and pride of being a Vegetarian come from finding truth in a world obsessed with rhetoric and propaganda, finding one strand of cloth in the quilt of philosophy, discovering an understanding of all beings, when the world wars with itself with confusion.” This person, looking somewhat impressed at my response, turned to my friend for an answer. He responded, “Why am I glad that I’m a Vegetarian? Because I’m not a fuckwitz.”


Slowly, as we became good friends, the demeanor in which he portrayed himself to me became something foreign to how he answered his critics, or how he even answered strangers. Yet, it’s not like that just with him. Every person has a natural barrier that they keep up between themselves and those they are not familiar with. Some people will not smile or laugh unless in the company of close friends, others will never give a genuine statement unless they are among familiar faces. This friend of mine, just another nameless man among a group of disenchanted reformers, was among those people whose emotions never left the inside unless with his mates. I had seen him debate, and the spectacle almost looked like a mass of uncivilized arguments, but among those people, I had not seen him laugh, or smile, or cry. But when we would sit side by side as friends, each eating a tomatoe and lettuce sandwich on toast, he would share with me his thoughts and feelings, things which he always had to hide. He is not the only one to engage in this habit, and it would be a rare find to discover a person who did not do the same. He was afraid, mostly, that if he said exactly what he felt on the inside, that someone could use it to hurt him. It is how we all feel: receptive to being honest about ourselves, because we are all scared to death of rejection. This may, indeed, be a way of understanding emotions, in particular anger. When this friend of mine spoke, and used every negative word in his own and the next man’s dictionary, he spoke from inside a bubble, because afterwards, he would be able to sit down and have a drink, as these debates never reached him on the inside. And when he spoke to me, it was outside of this imaginary building, where he could smile and look at nature’s beauty, without fear of criticism of any sort. I never told him what I saw here.


The day finally came, where the winds of change were at our backs, and my comrade had to take leave. We shook hands, and I told him, “It was good to get to know you, friend.” And squeazed his palm back, saying, “And it was good to find one decent man among a bunch of redneck fucks.” He left, and I saw him walking. Sitting on my piece of sidewalk, I watched him make every step. He never looked back.


This was but a few months ago. I believe, in all sincerity, that I am a greater man because of my encounter with this friend, and an even greater one still for becoming his ally. As these days pass, every effort transforming into strength added to the movement, every dream of my lovers and friends of past just another reason to stand up taller, stronger; as these moments pass like currents in the ocean, the meaning of my life has only be strengthed by those faces who come into and leave my life. The memories of happiness just become a collage of people who have influenced me. The first female to hold me close and confess her emotions, the first male to recite his poetry about civilization to me — these men and women who have been obligated to move, to travel, to keep going in whatever direction that calls them. I find myself with friends, always in circulation, but always left with the times we had together, those experiences that strengthened our comradery, our courage. As we open up to each other, we know that the person we are loving today, may very well just be another a million miles from us tomorrow, in a crowd of strangers. My friends, travelling the globe, I wish I could be with you all at all times and at all places, but such a realization is both an ultimate heaven and an ultimate impossibility. Every wish for a perfected society comes with a desire to be among men and women of good humor, of charity, of decency, of good reason and generosity. Today, though, every action that I commit on behalf of some oppressed class, it is done with the pride of the individuals I have met, who are sacrificing themselves everyday for something that may not be realized except in centuries to come. Every moment dedicated to relaxing, is done ultimately, with the thought of them fighting, in my mind… And as I toss and turn, fighting the mad confusion of an adversary, I never let up, because I have not forgotten — what I do today, is a whisper to a friend.


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Worth and Humanitarianism

Sunday, February 12th, 2006

I will not live forever. All of the people around me will not live forever, either. There have been various groups to assert that there is eternal life, “eternal salvation,” but such claims bring with them no evidence and often find themselves in mockery of reason and intellectual examination. However, the point of this essay is not to criticize religion, nor is it to criticize religionists. Whether or not there is an afterlife, there is the life: our daily troubles and hardships, that stress and strengthen us; our daily loves and admirations, that frustrate and fill us with warmth. We are all mortal beings, and we will all eventually perish, by whatever means it is.

There is, however, the probable hope that perhaps science will save us from our eternal face. Perhaps a medical invention will allow certain, wealthy individuals to live for thousands of years, or perhaps forever. However, as far as science is concerned today, and as far as animalia is concerned, we all have a limited amount of years in our life - a limited amount of hours and minutes, a limited amount of breaths and thoughts - until we meet eternal sleep. Of death, it is nothingness. We will to cease to have thoughts, cease to be conscious, and cease to be sensory. Just as death brings an end to homeostatic systems of respiration and digestion - wholly bodily functions - death also bings an end to consciousness.


Surely, however, there is the question of a types of immortality. To varying degrees, Hitler and Cicero, Descartes and Hume, and Newton and Einstein are all individuals which have attained immortality. They will forever grace the pages of history books, being the monumental figures which have influenced society. The foundation that Newton laid, later to be remodeled by Einstein and still remodeled by modern physicists, has had an impact on our knowledge and our inventions. Understanding the mechanics of the Universe has always been a typical - yet invaluable - pursuit of any civilized people. There have been others; literary giants who have turned our hearts ablaze with fiery emotion, such as Lev Nik Tolstoi’s story of how the lonely cobbler found god, and such as Mark Twain’s undying tale of a runaway slave with a runaway child. The political theorists such as Marx, Engels, Smith, Locke, Machiavelli, Godwin, among others, as well as the politicians themselves such as Roosevelt, Kennedy, Jefferson, Churchill, Stalin, Lenin, as others, have all had an degree of influence on the civilizations of the world. These men, in the entirely mortal sense, have attained a degree of unleveled immortality, only equaled by each other. All individuals in this world have this immortality, but it’s all of degrees. We all influence each other with our opinions and our ideas. In this sense, we all have a sort of immortality. As for ourselves, it depends on how we direct this immortality, that it becomes what we like it to be.


Immortality of culture and society is only a limited immortality, though. In no sense is it a real immortanity, or is it a prolonged consciousness beyond death, but to a particular degree, to have an impact on the way people think and believe is a superb feeling. There will be an immortal impact. Even if not a largely important political, literary, or scientific impact, everyone can have offspring and then their children are existent because of the previous generation. This type of immortal impact is parallel to the belief, however, that humanity - or even just life - will go on forever. Will life end or will it go on changing and evolving forever? As far as science can tell so far, life will not and cannot go on living forever. Our Universe is running on a limited source of energy. Once this energy runs out, in all its various forms, then life will cease to exist forever. Stars have been an important key factor in the growth and development of life; the formation of new stars, however, has significantly decreased over the least billion years. In fact, in 100 trillion years, it is speculated that the last star in the Universe will cease to exist. To quote one scientific article concerning such inevitability of life…




But there is another sort of eternal life that we hope for, one in the temporal realm. In the conclusion to Origin of Species, Charles Darwin wrote: “As all the living forms of life are lineal descendants of those which lived before the Cambrian epoch, we may feel certain that the ordinary succession by generation has never once been broken …. Hence we may look with some confidence to a secure future of great length.” The sun will eventually exhaust its hydrogen fuel, and life as we know it on our home planet will eventually end, but the human race is resilient. Our progeny will seek new homes, spreading into every corner of the universe just as organisms have colonized every possible niche of the earth. Death and evil will take their toll, pain and worry may never go away, but somewhere we expect that some of our children will carry on.


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The ultimate limits on life will in any case become significant only on timescales that are truly cosmic. Still, for some it may seem disturbing that life, certainly in its physical incarnation, must come to an end. But to us, it is remarkable that even with our limited knowledge, we can draw conclusions about such grand issues. Perhaps being cognizant of our fascinating universe and our destiny within it is a greater gift than being able to inhabit it forever. [”The Fate of Life in the Universe,” in Scientific American, by Lawrence M. Krauss and Glenn D. Starkman.]


Of what value, then do we assign to our lives? It is true that one day our children’s children’s children will cease to be alive. It is also true that whatever impact that we rendered upon society and culture will always inevitably be destroyed just the children of future generations will be destroyed. The purpose of writing a book, of composing a speech, of fighting a war, is so that the next generation’s thinkers may meticulously examine the aspects of such events. So that the men of the next generation may go over the words of Susan B. Anthony’s speeches, their hearts being warmed by the affection and warmth of such speeches. So that men of learning may search through the sentences and paragraphs of Paine’s The Rights of Man, unveiling the equality of humans intended by its author. So that the freedom earned by Union soldiers fighting the Confederacy will preserve the rights of African humans. These things, however, will all come to mean nothing, because life will cease to exist at a certain time. The last civilization, hopefully one that has finally found peace, will come to crumble, like every civilization before it. Of what value, then, are our earthly actions when the final earthly consequence will always be death? If this is true - which modern science would confirm - then what are our actions really worth?


I can say with perfect confidence that our actions for an immortal civilization are worth just as much as they are for a mortal one! Every moment paused for a kiss, a touch of affection, is still a moment paused for the sake of brightening another’s day; every advance in science is still progression that will make life easier; and every sentence of every book, every stanza of every poem, is still written with the hopes of the making hearts soar! When enough years pass, what we did today may not matter, but it will always matter for today. It will matter that we were there for our friends, it will matter that our hands were gentle when offering a touch of compassion to anyone whose plight was more than they could bear; it will still matter that we are willing to smile in the darkest days. When a man is willing to help a small child cross the street - fear-drenched hand entrusted in the palm of wisdom - it is still a valuable sign of an all the more valuable virtue: unhindered kindness.


The rains of tomorrow will wash away the sins and triumphs of today, but what will matter is that we were there to commit those sins and triumphs. Forever etched on the mind of our friends will be our aid that we offered. Not undyingly stored in the library of human literature, but undyingly stored in the heart of compassion, only forgotten at death. That we had enough will, enough desire in the emancipation from unhappiness, will matter because of itself. That we had in it ourselves as individuals to challenge the world to think different, to be different, to trust in itself, to change; that we did these things will matter as we do them. When we strive to be as understanding and empathetic as we can be - so that every action we commit is thoughtful and considerate - it has worth. Reformers will come and pass, scientists and statesmen following in their tracks. The winds and rains of history will destroy the small remnants that we know of these people and soon enough, by the eventual demise of civilization and life, but what they did that pushed the hearts of men and woman to do more than they ever thought they could do. The encouragement, the sympathetic and thoughtful concerns, the caring affection, the unbridled warmth, values and virtues among our minds and hearts are as real today as they will ever be.


The beauty of the horizon will be captured a million times in poetry, just as the ocean will be painted, and the sky photographed. Lovers, held lofty and tightly in the heat exchange of their bodies, will not see the demise of civilization, but they still sit perched, still reveling in happiness, still loving each other, still loving life. There will be days when we cry ourselves awake, in the same manner we slept, and there is nothing but the abiding darkness to hear our tears and see our pain. But there will be days as such when a friend will hold us, make sure everything will be fine, will love us. Days, unparalleled to the consistency of a normal routine, where we feel like eagles a thousand miles above the highest tree. There may be no tomorrow when enough years pass, when we can sleep knowing we will not wake, when we breath knowing we will not breath again, and affection will hold as much value until we are no more. Until we are unconscious, unable to render our sympathies and affections on our fellow creatures, our emotions will always matter.


Every moment paused for a kiss, a touch of affection, is still a moment paused for the sake of brightening another’s day; every advance in science is still progression that will make life easier; and every sentence of every book, every stanza of every poem, is still written with the hopes of the making hearts soar.


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When Life Gives You Waves, Learn to S.U.R.F.

Sunday, February 5th, 2006

The S.U.R.F. Strategy is a simple, quick strategy to adapt and positively respond to whatever waves come your way. This keeps your attitude as an ally working for you rather than an adversary working against you. Learn the four steps of the S.U.R.F. Strategy.

Would you like to learn a skill set and technique so powerful that you could learn to recycle every failure, disappointment, setback and discouraging situation into a steppingstone for your success? We don’t go looking for adversity; it finds us. We can’t necessarily avoid pain or suffering, but if we use our training, we have a better chance for survival and eventually find some benefit or lesson we can take and claim a victory.

Apply the S.U.R.F. Strategy™ to Make the Best of the Waves

1. Survey the SituationWhen you are tumbled by a wave (adversity), you have to regain your bearing and figure out exactly where you are. Leave emotion behind and survey your situation. What new opportunities might be found or developed? Now is the opportunity to create a new plan. It might be tempting to get caught up in the heat of the moment and feel like you are without options. Take a step back to gain perspective. With an understanding of where you are and what choices you have, you can make the most of the opportunities.

2. Understand Your OptionsAfter you know where you are, begin to assess options for moving forward. Focus only on solutions. After you survey your situation, it’s time to make way for positive solutions and options. Ask questions like: “What can I gain?” or “What contacts can I make?” Maintain a positive outlook regardless of the situation — even if you do not immediately see the opportunity. Stay focused on the outcome you want and where you want to go. Look for the hidden benefits behind each change and every situation.

3. Respond Based on Your GoalsNow assess the options in front of you. Some may be better than others. Some may be more complicated or difficult to see. Weigh the pros and cons of each option. You might find your best option right now is to persist in your current situation. You may find yourself riding a wave bigger than you think you can handle. It may be a wild ride, but at least it will be interesting. Remember, you always have choices.

4. Forward Focus in Action and AttitudeYou can’t surf yesterday’s wave. The past is the past. Now it is time to think creatively toward the future. Take positive action. Don’t let things happen to you. Create the conditions and outcomes you seek! Now that you are surfing the wave, maintain focus on where you want to go and what you want to do. Maintain a vivid mental image of your successful future finding ways to keep taking action in that direction.

When Bad Surf Happens to Good SurfersAs you surf life’s waves, you will see good waves and bad ones. You will have some awesome rides and some gnarly wipe outs. You will meet fellow surfers who want to help you out and those who would rather beat you down. There will be sunny days to enjoy the beach. There will also be storms that take away your enjoyment and opportunity as the sea becomes unstable and unsuitable for your purposes. Injustice, rude people, hardships, difficulties and even some bad things will happen in your life. We cannot control those. The only thing we can control is our attitude and the actions we choose to take in response.

Living is not about playing it safe. Test yourself. Learn the full measure of your surfing ability. Do not hide from the waves. You can learn from both your great rides and your wipe outs. Opportunity does not come to the passive. Be active and create your opportunities. Sometimes opportunities only come through difficult situations. Adversity doesn’t build character, it reveals it. How you choose to respond to adversity reveals your true character. Your true character is uncovered in the actions of your response and in the choices you make. Your character is revealed in the promises you keep and in the convictions you hold true. UltimatelyScience Articles, your character is a mirror of the guiding principles in your life. What you do and say reveal to the world who you are.

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Give Yourself The Greatest Gift

Saturday, February 4th, 2006

Imagine if you could give yourself the best gift ever. Agift that would bring success, happiness and abundance intoyour life, not just temporarily, but for the rest of yourliving years.

Would you be interested in having such a gift? Hmm, let meguess! The good news is that YOU CAN. The gift I’m talkingabout is personal responsibility. Let me share with youprecisely why this gift is the best you will ever receive!


When you decide to take personal responsibility for yourwhole life, a remarkable series of reactions takes place.All of these reactions increase your personal power.


Acceptance is the first, crucial reaction. You accept thatwhere you are right now is all your doing. No longer willyou blame anyone else for your current situation or listexcuses such as bad luck or lack of opportunity. Blame andexcuses are heavy baggage and they do not bring success.Acceptance will help you abandon them for good.


In accepting full responsibility for your current situation,you also accept that where you’ll be in a year or 5 years isalso down to you. You chose the paths to the destinationyou’re at right now. Therefore, you can choose better pathsto lead you to a greater destination.


Acceptance leads to the realization that you have the powerto change your life for the better. So exercise your power:Choose what you want to do with your life. Choose where youwant your life to take you. Choose to be the person youtruly want to be. Choose to live life the way YOU want tolive it. Spend time thinking about all of the above andcommit your ideas to paper. Don’t let the whims and fears ofothers guide you in this. Only YOU can be the person youwant to be.


Be in total control of what you allow your mind to beexposed to. If you listen to people who live life cravingfor security, you will take on board their fears. So beresponsible for your own education. You’ve found thisarticle so you’re already taking steps to fill your mindwith positive information to help you achieve yourambitions. Resolve to make this an ongoing process.


I was once told “if you don’t take responsibility for whatenters your mind, you risk allowing others to educate you.And they may not have your best interests at heart.” Thinkabout this. It is so important to take responsibility forwhat you allow into your mind. Eliminating negative inputsand focusing instead on positive, life-enhancing feeds whichtake you closer to your goals is vital.


Taking personal responsibility is a big step - somewhatfrightening initially. No more crutches to lean on, no more”I could’ve been something if only…”, no more hand holdingfrom well meaning but misguided souls who fuel your fearsand stop you from taking action. From this moment on, acceptthat you are the Captain of your ship. You plot the course,you select the landmarks and ports you need to stop at enroute to the final destination: the real you who lives yourdream life.


Personal responsibility means you give yourself the power tocommand. Yes, it means you will make mistakes as you learnto become the master of your destiny. But don’t let fearstop you from taking command. Seize it. Plan. Act. Learn.Plan. Act. Learn. Refuse to be blown off course. Resolveeveryday that no matter what happens, you will handle it andovercome it. And you will learn from experience and use itall as stepping stones towards your destiny.


Look at it this way: the world is full of people who do thesame things week in, week out. Through no fault of theirown, they will never ever achieve their full potentialbecause they’ve been educated to conform. Why be likeeveryone else when you can be the uniqueComputer Technology Articles, inspired andfulfilled person living life on YOUR terms instead of theterms of the masses?


The world is crying out for your special talents. Why keepit waiting any longer?


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Kundalini Awakening - definition and the path

Thursday, February 2nd, 2006

Vijay Kumar started in search of God at the age of 13 years. It was in 1993 that he was graced with the vision of God, the Almighty. Since then the hidden truths of all Scriptures of all Religions of the World have become like ABCD to him. Providing Free Spiritual counseling to the World Community through the medium of internet through websites <A HREF=”http://www.godrealized.com/”>Kundalini Awakening</A> and <A HREF=”http://www.vijaykumar.com/”>Kundalini</A>

Kundalini Awakening - the sure shot method for awakening of the kundalini.


Before we discuss about kundalini awakening… we need to understand the meaning of kundalini! The kundalini Shakti is that hidden positive energy stored in every human being by awakening which every human being can reach the level of Mahavira, Gautama Buddha, Jesus Christ and Prophet Mohammed.


The awakening of the kundalini is possible by practicing the right Yoga and meditation. In the normal circumstances the awakening of the kundalini is supposed to happen within a period of 11 million manifestations in the form of a human being. A serious seeker of spirituality always desires Kundalini awakening at the earliest. Why?


Every true seeker of spirituality understands that unless the kundalini awakening occurs… one shall not be able to reach the level of Nirvikalpa samadhi and the stage of self realization. Kundalini awakening is a hundred percent must before one can gain enlightenment in this life.


Apart from practicing the Shavasana pose in Yoga and also Neti as advocated by Maharishi Ramana… one needs to practice absolute celibacy for the kundalini awakening to occur.


Kundalini awakening is not something which can be taught in form of books… it only comes from experience. As we proceed on the path of pure spirituality while practicing absolute celibacy and meditation… we shall find one-day that our kundalini awakening has occurred.


Kundalini energy stored within our spine slowly recoils itself. It is as if God is directly lifting us straight up for us to realize God with a short period of time. It is a very noble experience for every true seeker of spirituality.


For the kundalini awakening to occur… we need to preserve the monthly quota of energy given to every man and woman. We just cannot let this energy find pure physical channels of pleasure.


The path of kundalini awakening shall become clear from the following example-


In the normal routine if we are required to take 11 million steps up the ladder of spirituality… then it is also possible that we take the elevator straight up and cut short the path.


This elevator… the shortcut is the path of the kundalini which can be awakened by preserving the cosmic energy provided to every human being every month. As the stored energy increases… so does the journey expedite?


Every true seeker of spirituality has to one-day switchover to the recourse of kundalini awakening for the normal path may take millions of manifestations… a long journey indeed!


As the kundalini Shakti raises from the base of the spine towards the centre of the forehead… one shall experience very fearful flashes. It is really frightening sometimes for the kundalini awakening is accompanied by the shadow of a mammoth king cobra with many heads glaring at you from a short distance.


The coiled Serpentine kundalini Shakti has been compared to the power which one experiences while watching a coiled snake coming out of slumber. It is too frightening an experience and many seekers of spirituality leave their journey midway.


The coiled Serpentine energy known as kundalini Shakti is not to be feared of. We have to under all circumstances look at the face of the cobra with a feeling that we have to overcome the fear imbibed within us. Fearing the coiled kundalini Shakti shall be of no help.


The practice of absolute celibacy brings about a radical change in the personality of a serious seeker of spirituality. As we conqueror the coiled kundalini Shakti… we shall find an enormous glow on our forehead visible to the mankind.


The glow on the forehead of any human being directly represents the inner thinking process of any human being. More the glow… the higher the human being is supposed to be on the spiritual pedestal.


We may indulge in kundalini awakening right now or in subsequent manifestations… there is absolutely no escape. We have to indulge in kundalini awakening in one of the manifestations so that our soul (atman within our body) regains its pristine pure from at the earliest and liberates forever from the cycle of birth and death.


In the last 150 years two persons have very successfully awakened their kundalini and realized God. Sri Ramakrishna Paramhansa and Maharishi Ramana while proceeding on the path of pure spirituality in search of God had their kundalini awakened fully. It was only after their kundalini had awakened were they able to reach the stage of Nirvikalpa samadhi.


Every true seeker of spirituality understands the importance of kundalini awakening. If we are to realize God within our lifetime… we have to awaken our kundalini fully in this very life. Unless we take the lift straight up… we shall not reach the level of an awakened one… a living Buddha!


Kundalini awakening… however fearful it may seem to be… is representative of the positive powers of the Cosmos overtaking the Satanic powers forever. Every God realized soul reaches the level of a Mahavira, Gautama Buddha, Jesus Christ or Prophet Mohammed only after having conquered the negative forces for ever by awakening of the kundalini.


Kundalini awakening is better possible in a Man… The prime reason why in the whole history of mankind only two ladies had their kundalini awakened fully… Gargi, the bachelor philosopher and Maitreyi… the famous wife of Sage Jnanavalakya!


Gargi was that special lady who having awakened her kundalini indulged herself in the famous dialogues with Pundit Mandan Mishra on the topic of sex. Gargi finally defeated Pundit Mandan Mishra for she was a truly God realized soul. Pundit Mandan Mishra had yet to awaken his kundalini.


Sage Jnanavalakya was that dominant force in the times of king Janaka that even before the contest amongst 10,000 pundits and sages gathered on stage had begun… Sage Jnanavalakya ordered the prize money to be taken home. Sage Jnanavalakya was a truly God realized soul. His kundalini had awakened fully and he knew that none in the assembly had reached his level of spiritual attainment.


Maitreyi… his dutiful wife was never after the mundane affairs of life… she yearned for gaining self realization within her lifetime. She knew well that her husband could impart her pearls of wisdom gaining which she could get her kundalini awakened and finally reach the stage of enlightenment.


The Gargi and the Maitreyi colleges in New DelhiPsychology Articles, India are reminiscent of those enlightening times in the history of mankind which remind us that kundalini awakening is also possible for a woman.


Summing up I need to emphasize the fact that the precious semen is required to be stored if we truly desire Kundalini awakening at the earliest. It is only when the stored semen rises through the spine to the level of the centre of the forehead… shall we gain enlightenment within this life.

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